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Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Insightful info on women

As a female I know we can be very difficult at times and may do some very spiteful things. So here are some helpful tips on how to deal with us lol


  1. Some Do's
  • Be Understanding - Can't stress this enough guyz. I know there's times when you just want to stiff arm us but hold your composure because yelling and being as rude as us is just going to make the situation worst. Sometimes we really just want you to be the bigger person and tell us we're right. At least try to put yourself in our predicament so that you can get a feel for where we're coming from at times. Try to make her problems your own it works out for the better.
  • Be Considerate - Don't do things spitefully when you clearly know it's that time of the month. Just let it go. Around that time females become very moody, everything and anything will make us mad. So as much as you know we're completely wrong please please just try to let us rock out till the period is over. Then you can get at us for everything we seemed to be wrong about.
  • LISTEN! As much as what we're saying doesn't interest you at all, laugh at our jokes just like we do yours no matter how corny they are and pretend like your watching ESPN for the rest of the conversation. Trust it'll pay off greatly!
  • Know - Guyz I'm not asking you to jot down everything we say and memorize it, but know the little things. Be able to tell when she's on her period, know her favorites (colors, foods, shows etc.), know little actions of endearments that she likes (ways she likes to be held etc.), know when she's "just not in the mood", when she really just needs time to herself. The little things count the most guyz SERIOUSLY.
  • Be a GENTLEMEN - This is negotiable sometimes because we don't always want a gentlemen, thugs come in handy as well, but in public know your role. She shouldn't have to tell you to hold the door and it shouldn't take an incident for you to take the initiative to do so. Although, you and her are together that doesn't mean going out places is extinct. Going out places is not only for people who are just dating. Take her out every now and then no girl likes to stay in the house all the time. (she wants you to show her off). Back her up in little altercations, we like when you take the initiative for us even when we're wrong. Back us up! Say SORRY every now and then when your wrong. Your not a Pussy because you said it. watch corny movies with her just because. It'll make her feel like it's not just about you. And don't lie to us about our appearance because you don't wanna hurt our feelings. If the dress makes her look fat tell her just find a nice way to do it lol
  • Be Ambitious - We like guyz that know what they want in life. Males with goals, we want hard workers. Show us that your good for more than the usual, that we can depend on you for not the just the regular things if we need to.
2. Some Don'ts
  • Don't Lie! We almost always find out the truth. We know you may be doing it because you don't want to hurt our feelings, but at the end of the day it hurts us more that you couldn't be honest with us. That's where cheating comes in 'Not going to say to much on this because that's a whole other topic' but if you have it in your mind that your attracted to someone else and there's a slight chance that you might attempt something with that specific person please break up with your girlfriend first. You have a better chance of getting her back if you do so.
  • Don't be Overprotective - Big turn off. If you have insecurity problems adjust them before you go into a relationship. Let her have "girls night" and don't be so uptight and scary when she talks about guy friends. IT'S NORMAL. We do have them just like how you have female friends that we're supposed to automatically trust because you've known them for "soooo long".
  • Don't Smother us - We like to breathe just like you, don't get me wrong we love PBA, but just don't over do it. Sometimes we want to be known as an individual and not as thee couple. Give your girl some room to walk, I'm pretty sure she's not going to far.
  • Don't Hide Emotions - We like to see the sensitive side every now and then. That doesn't mean act like a bitch because that can be annoying, but share feelings with us we like that kind of stuff. Tell us what we do that makes you happy and mad so we can brush up on what we need to do and shouldn't do. Girls want to know what makes their man feel good so we can know if we're doing something right. Be open with her, develop that kind of relationship it builds trust.
  • Don't Falsely Accuse Her - Guyz I'm sick and tired of hearing girls complain about guyz accusing them of things that their doing. Please do not accuse us of things you don't know for sure if we're doing. That goes for both because I know we females do it to. Oh! and don' t do the TIT for TAT game either plenty of relationships have ended because of this. If she does something that pisses you off, do not find something to do to piss her off just as bad. Address the situation and tell her you didn't like it, its nothing wrong with being honest.
* And people please try not to address problems in your relationships on the world wide web everybody doesn't need to know you and your mate is having a problem, majority of the time it makes the problem worst.

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